WILL I CHOOSE YOU AGAIN (CONTD)

I had a WhatsApp chat with Mrs D, and she had this to say,

How long have you been married and Do you have children?
Almost 3 years, yes 2 beautiful kids.

If u had to do it all again would you choose your husband?
A BIG yes

Why?
Well, asides from love, he hasn't changed from the person I met years ago, he has only gotten better and has helped me grow in a lot of ways. He always has my back and of course, I wouldn't have my 2 awesome kids.

Mrs E had this to say in our chat

How long have you been married?
20years

Do you have children?
Yes

20years is a long time.what has kept you both together?
Sacrifices,  understanding,  patience,  hope and most importantly  God's love and grace.

If you had the chance to do it all again, would you choose your husband?
For some reasons, I  would and for some, I would not.
I  would if  I am to consider how he tries to take care of the children and meet up with his responsibilities towards them. But I won't if I  consider how he doesn't bother about his responsibilities towards me his wife.
But the truth is that you can never have it all.

Mr G, married for 17years, said: " I will do it again with her even with her flaws." I asked what flaws? he took a deep breath and was quiet for a very little while and he said  "my wife is too temperamental and this causes issues between us .aside  from this, she is supportive, and a  good mother to our children. If I had to do it again, I will marry her but without the temper " He laughed and said no one is perfect.

In my WhatsApp chat with Mrs G who has been married for 25 years,  said yes she would do it all again with her husband because according to her, "He tolerates her despite all her flaws and encourages her to get better. Her  happiness she says, is very paramount to  him." She says she in turn" submits to him because men like women who are submissive."

Mrs F was also candid in our telephone conversation. she said " I  knew my husband way back University, we were just friends, in fact I had a boyfriend I was dating then. In my final year, I found out I was pregnant for my boyfriend, who I will call a  Lagos boy, and obviously wasn't ready for that kind of responsibility. I didn't have any money and he didn't too. I  was at a loss about what to do, and I confided in my friend who is now my husband and he stood by me and supported me. we began dating and later got married. I also lied to him about my age. We are a few months older than each other and I only told him the truth after we got married. he told me he knew all along. We have been married for 18years and we have two children. Even though my husband can really be a handful and annoying especially when he doesn't have money.  I look back at the fact that he stood by me, hen I needed help, and he  didn't get angry with me about  the age incident.he is a good person.so yes I will do it again with him."

My take

I personally don't believe in a second life but if such a thing ever existed some people will go for the partner they initially chose but for some ......not so much, either way, it poses the question will I choose u again?  Cheers to life and love 🍾🍹